There is usually lots of goosebumps and butterflies during the window period of any romantic relationship but with time in most cases, things change and the need and feeling of slowing things down sets in. In almost all romantic relationships, the beginning stages are always filled with lots of chemistry and bonding that calls for the need to spend much time together. Fortunately or unfortunately with time, things change and tend to feel a little bit used to them or things going fast and would want to slow things down without breaking up. This is very normal and should not be a cause of turmoil to you as there are essential guidelines on how you can do that and not end up destroying things between you and the significant other. The article below is about the things that you need to do so as to get to slow things down and not end up breaking things up.
To begin with as you look to slow things down without breaking up, you need to things through. For the sole fact that you have come to the point where you feel that things need to be taken at a slower pace, then it means that you are not comfortable with the how fast things are moving. Take some time and think it over to establish the reason why you need a breather. If you do not feel the relationship anymore, do not find excuses to hold on maybe for the reason you do not want to hurt her. If you are still interested in her but in the fear of destroying a good relationship due to how things are going, be sure of it first before making the next move.
Having thought it over and established the main reason why you want to slow things down, talk it out with her. Create sometime and environment that is convenient for you to talk to her and be mature about everything. It is normal to expect some tears and hard emotional moment as ladies are quite delicate when it comes to matters love and relationships and that is why you should be quick to reassure her that you are only looking to slow things down and not end things between you.
Having come to an agreement as adults, go forth to set new boundaries so that the new pace agreed upon can get to work. Other nights and free time, get to spend it with the guys or doing other things that interest you so that you do not feel as if she is all over your face and business.
With the boundaries set, you should work on ensuring that you stick and be loyal to them.